PCHeintz72 wrote:The main thing, but hardly the only one is I fail to see the 'trust' in their relationship for it to hold long term and be happy.
Akane trusts him as far as she knows she can trust him, which increases over the course of the manga as their relationship improves and she gets to know him better; presumably her trust would keep increasing. Seeing as Ranma can be pretty dishonest that seems to be far more healthy for their relationship than trusting him completely only to be disillusioned and not being able to trust him at all anymore. She doesn't irrationally distrust him, at least if you try to see things from her perspective and don't count reactions in the heat of the moment, and she trusts him enough not to be worried about normal interaction with women which is the main problem of distrust in relationships (e. g. Hinako before he starts to grope her, interestingly enough Ukyou Shampoo and Kodachi don't trust him that far, presumably you also think a relationship between one of them and Ranma couldn't work long term)
I'm also not convinced on the compromise aspect of things you mention.
She is willing to give up on the dougi just because it bothers Ranma.
And I do not think Ranma enjoys being hit with all those items from Akane all the time.
I'm not claiming he enjoys it. I'm merely claiming he enjoys teasing her more than he minds being hit.
However, even if one takes those hits as comedy, and replaced them with either lashing out verbally only, or mere slaps, it is not right.
How so? If neither of them builds up any resentment why should it ever become a problem?
For those that think the violence is not present as much in the manga, or as you state, in the later parts of the manga, I normally refer them to:
Ranma vs Akane Argument League TablesRegrettably, that link cuts off at volume 35.
She hits him 3 times in V36, once in V37 and not at all in V38.
According to that list she hits him:
72 times in V 1-10,
56 times in V 11-20
28 times in V 21-30
41 times in V 31-38 [average of 5.125 times per volume]
127 times in the first 19 volumes
71 times in the second 19 volumes
V 34 is an outlier (particularly considering that the list counts hitting him while she is dreaming} and the trend is downwards.
It also seems to me that the percentage of hits after teasing is moving down slightly.
EDIT: I missed a few in V36, but anyway there are considerably more in the first half of the manga than in the second and my main point was that there is no reason to think they have a long-term effect.