Spica75 wrote:Not hyperbole if you look at it from Akane´s point of view. And since it´s she that is the target, her point of view is really the only relevant.
Why not try your own advice, then? Go ahead; tell me exactly when she looked or thought of those boys and had an expression on her face, a look in her eyes, or mentally thought, "I'm going to be raped," at any point.
Really...
Sorry, but you get a fail in psychology here.
You're just making a statement against me without even making an attempt at presenting proof, a classic example of ad hominem.
Also, do note the use of "particularly," because I'm not saying that she was untouched. She coped with the experience well enough, and can still function just fine around boys in general. At worst, she has a low opinion about boys.
Yes, because someone appearing to be the direct opposite to the usual "boys" getting a different reaction is such a surprise? Note emphasis on "appearing to be"(as far as Akane sees).
She doesn't have a problem with boys in general, so long as they don't impose themselves upon her. Despite his antics, both past and present, she's rather patient and tolerant with Tatewaki, too. Even when he makes his advances, she reacts no differently than when anyone else does something worthy of a physical response. Or, when Ryoga wasn't listening to her and tried to get intimate (under the mistaken impression that she had been making advances), and she couldn't stop him, her thoughts weren't even remotely close to being about the possibility of being raped, but of being crushed by his hug. There she was, in a position where someone with even a bit of irrational fear about being raped would likely show signs of such when being pursued by an unstoppable man with intimate intentions, and she keeps her head and correctly deduces what the real problem is.
Seriously?
Do you realise you´re basically saying that Ranma gets a free pass because he´s mentally ill?
How a person acts is a CHOICE. Getting attacked and harassed by people is a choice by those attacking.
Claiming that Ranma is unable to control how he acts, yes that strongly infers he is mentally ill.
It's hard to realize when that's not what I'm saying. You might like to think that I was, but I'll have to settle for disappointing you. Frankly, I'm flummoxed that what I said could be misconstrued as presenting a case of mental illness, or that you'd believe that I'd do that without expressly saying so.
I'm pretty sure that I clearly stated that how they acted was ultimately their choice. That includes the reactions to the choices that others impose. The human mind isn't so simple that the same circumstances will always affect different people the same way. Just as much as most can choose how they act, they can also choose how to react. There also isn't even a guarantee that prolonged exposure to something will affect them, which includes how much if it does, and how long that takes.
Now, I never claimed anything to the effect that either of them couldn't control how they act or react, or that anyone got a free pass; I'm pretty sure that I mentioned "there are no excuses for any of their behavior" in at least one of my posts. I only said that, between the two of them, Ranma has a greater excuse for having the hardest time changing his ways. Akane's experience with the boys at school was relatively short compared to the experiences that fostered Ranma's arrogance, for instance; his experiences were a regular part of his life while Akane's was a deviation from her own norm late in her life (based on her current age, of course). That doesn't necessarily mean that Akane's experience is depreciated by comparison, but she had enough experience to recognize it as a problem to begin with, to not accept it as normal, and had the mental fortitude to deal with it well enough for as long as it lasted, whereas Ranma wasn't even aware that the things that would breed and ingrain arrogance within him was a thing. And, let's be honest, Genma isn't a paragon of parenthood or morality, and thus can't be depended on doing a good job of instilling the qualities that are commonly expected of a decent and well-balanced individual in society at any point in their development.
Now you´re being ridiculously unfair. Akane has basically spent her whole life with martial arts as a primary part of it, and has been a top dog in the area all the time, all her life, she has been given no reason to think she isn´t.
And you really fail psychology here. Akane is insecure not arrogant, being "perfect"(perfect at school, perfect martial artist, perfect girl...) is her way of dealing with it. And then Ranma and the loonies arrive and suddenly she´s not even close to the top, while Kuno has ruined it at school, and then Ranma the BOY claims to be a better girl.
I'd have to say that you're the one being ridiculously unfair. You're making the same case for Akane that you could for Ranma, but she somehow gets the pass. And, not only do you downplay the time when she's given a reason to reevaluate her standing in the martial arts arena, your excuse is that it's all simply a case of insecurity. While I won't say that there isn't -- or couldn't be -- any insecurity involved, I will argue that there's more arrogance involved than that. That, and we can't assume that just any occasion where she tries to prove herself, or acts competent when the challenge is beyond her, is founded on insecurity, or mainly so. Considering how often and confidently she's rushed into danger, despite the challenge(s) presented, I don't think that insecurity is the real issue with her, particularly since she has nothing to prove in most of those cases.
Also, I'm noticing that Ranma isn't also being considered for insecurities, which he most certainly has. It's also much more understandable for him as well, considering that martial arts isn't just his life, and very likely will be his livelihood, but that his strength, manliness and giri are tangled up in it as well. For Akane, martial arts is usually no more important than a hobby, and she could certainly live out the rest of her life just fine without placing emphasis on it, and that's a luxury that Ranma doesn't get to have. (After all, whether or not Akane has any personal expectation in regard to her martial arts, she's free to do whatever she wants with it without consequence. It's Ranma who is expected to inherit the dojo, which was why all of Soun's daughters were offered as possible wives, where two-thirds of them weren't martial artists; at least, not anywhere comparable to Akane, who herself falls short in comparison to Ranma.)
Ugh, that would take waaaayy too much time.
That's the cost of being accurate. Claims based on small samples, or perceived majorities without an ample amount of specified examples that can be compared, are no better than opinions and assumptions.